Singer Mary J. Blige shared insights on how her faith and guidance from pastors helped her confront pride and assume responsibility for her future. In a recent episode of the ‘IMO’ podcast, where she spoke with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson, Blige reflected on realizing the need to control her career following the release of her ‘No More Drama‘ album.

Blige acknowledged feeling frustrated and blaming others when things went wrong. She described apologizing to those involved in her album’s production. ‘I used to get upset and curse everybody out because things weren’t working. And it wasn’t their fault. It was my fault,‘ she admitted.

When Robinson inquired about how she developed the ability to take accountability, Blige credited her spiritual journey. She mentioned learning from TV pastors about pride and realized the importance of humility. ‘Pride and arrogance won’t get you far. I paused and assessed my actions,‘ Blige said.

In her journey to accountability, Blige asked for divine guidance, praying, ‘Lord, show me myself,‘ a prayer she continues. She recognized toxic influences in her life and took measures to address them.

Discussing the music industry, Blige highlighted her desire to learn about finances. She realized her ignorance had allowed others to benefit at her expense. ‘I have to get educated and stay on top of my business,‘ she asserted.

Christian Toto, a commentator, praised Blige’s remarks. ‘Victimhood is common in Hollywood, but Blige’s comments offer a refreshing perspective,‘ he remarked. He noted the pressure and competition in the industry and commended her for turning to faith and taking responsibility.

Adding a professional perspective, Seth A. Schachner emphasized the importance of self-education in music. He pointed out that artists today have more autonomy but still need to manage marketing and promotion.

Blige’s openness extended to her personal life. She spoke about choosing not to have children initially to preserve freedom, though her views evolved as she witnessed the joy children brought to her family.