Jennifer Lopez recently shared her views on what she finds most attractive in a man during her performance at the Dolce & Gabbana show in Taormina, Sicily. The 56-year-old artist emphasized that material possessions do not define a man’s attractiveness.

“But you know what really makes a man attractive? It’s not the watch. It’s not the car. It’s not the private jet. It really isn’t, although that’s nice.”

“It’s seeing them make the bed in the morning or wash the dishes for you when you’re tired at night. That’s what’s sexy. Now that’s what I call sexy,” she remarked.

Her audience responded with laughter and applause as she concluded, “Ladies, you know, we do all the things.”

Lopez performed several songs during the event, including “Love Don’t Cost a Thing,” “Waiting For Tonight,” “Let’s Get Loud,” “Ain’t Your Mama,” and “Save Me Tonight.” She wore a sparkling bodysuit for the occasion and engaged in playful banter with a backup dancer, emphasizing her self-sufficiency and independence.

“Fix my hair okay. Fix my hair. But the rest of you, get out of here. You’re broke. I don’t need you. I don’t need your money. I don’t need your gifts,” she humorously told her dancer, highlighting her confidence and financial independence.

In a recent interview on SiriusXM’s “Howard Stern Show,” Lopez reflected on her personal growth following her latest divorce from Ben Affleck in 2024. She explained how this transformative experience led her to seek various forms of guidance, including therapy and coaching.

“When I got divorced this last time, it was the best thing that ever happened to me,” she stated. “I had a religious coach, a therapist, a couple’s therapist, an individual therapist, and a coach to understand addiction.”

Lopez, who has been married four times, shared insights into what she learned about love and relationships.

“What I learned, it’s not that I’m not lovable — it’s that they’re not capable… They don’t have it in them,” she explained, mentioning how her previous partners gave her everything they could.

Reflecting on these experiences, Lopez expressed a deeper understanding of herself. She highlighted her journey to feel comfortable and secure in her own identity.

“[I] feel really comfortable and good in being myself, all the good parts and all the kind of complicated things,” she added.