A mother of two has gained widespread attention after sharing texts from her ex-husband that defy typical divorced parent interactions. Maddie Muhs, aged 33, posted screenshots of these messages on Instagram (@itsmaddiemuhs). She aimed to counter the often negative portrayal of divorce and co-parenting online. “I wanted to share some light on relationships that end but are still healthy,” Muhs explained to Newsweek.
In a series of texts, her ex-husband offered unexpected assistance and support. One message reminded her of trash and recycling pickup, offering to help carry items to the curb. Another text provided aid with scheduling car maintenance. He also expressed concern for her safety when traveling alone, highlighting his protective instincts as a father. Encouraging words included affirmations of her parenting, stating, “They know you love them. You’re a great mother.”
Muhs’ account of her positive co-parenting relationship resonated widely, garnering over 70,000 likes and shares. In discussion, she noted that a strong commitment to their children underpinned their relationship, despite the challenges of divorce. “Do not get me wrong, we have been through it, and it has not always been like this,” she admitted, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing their kids.
She revealed that coming to terms with their “bitterness” allowed both parents to see the benefits of a positive relationship. “If he’s happy and healthy, my kids will be too,” Muhs shared. Even though their marriage ended, she values the relationship with her children’s father as vital. Comments on her post praised their healthy relationship, noting it surpasses some relationships that remain in marriage.
Reacting to the shared story, many found inspiration. “Better than some people WHILE married,” a commenter noted. Other users appreciated the example Muhs set, encouraging more parents to focus on their children’s well-being over personal grievances.
While some inquire about their relationship status, Muhammads emphasized that understanding from others is secondary. “We don’t really care if anyone understands it though. It works for us,” she concluded.